He aha te tikanga o te moemoeā mo te whakatahe?
He wheako kaha, he wheako whakararuraru hoki te moemoeā mo te whakatahe, ā, kāore e paku whai tikanga ana ki ngā take hapūtanga. Engari, he maha ngā wā e tohu ana i te mahinga o te whakarere, te ngaronga, te whakakorenga o ngā mahere, o ngā whakaaro rānei i whai mana ki te tipu. Ka tohu pea ki te mutunga o tētahi wāhanga o te ora, te hiahia ki te whakakore i tētahi mea kua riro hei pikaunga, te tohu rānei mo te mataku ki te kawenga me te whakatau i ngā whakataunga uaua. He tohu kaha tēnei kei te tukatuka te hinengaro o raro i ngā take e pā ana ki te auahatanga, te whakatutukitanga, me te whakarere.
Ngā Taha Pai o te Moemoeā
- Te Whakawāteatanga i ngā Pikaunga: Ka taea e te moemoeā mo te whakatahe te tohu i te whakataunga ki te whakakore i tētahi mea kāore e whai wāhi ana ki a koe – he hononga paitini, he ara mahi hē, he tikanga pikaunga rānei.
- He Tīmatanga Hou: I ētahi wā, he tohu tēnei kua tae ki te wā mo ngā huringa nui ka huaki mai i ngā huarahi hou me te anamata pai ake, ahakoa me pōwhiri tahi i te mamae o te poroporoaki ki ngā mea o mua.
- Te Patu i te Mataku: Mēnā ka rongo koe i te māhurutanga i roto i te moemoeā i muri i te whakatahe, tērā pea kei te anga koe ki ō mataku e pā ana ki te kawenga, ā, kei te whakaae hoki koe me whakakore ētahi mahere mo tō painga ake.
Ngā Taha Kino o te Moemoeā
- Te Rongo o te Ngaronga me te Pāpouri: He maha ngā wā e whakaata ana te moemoeā mo te whakatahe i te tino rongo o te ngaronga, te pāpouri mo tētahi mea i taea pea te tupu, engari kāore i tutuki – hei tauira, ngā āheinga ngaro, ngā moemoeā kāore i tutuki, ngā kaupapa kāore i oti.
- Te Rerereunga me te Mataku ki ngā Hua: Ka tohu pea ki te pakanga ā-roto ki tētahi whakataunga uaua, te mataku ki te whakatau i te takahanga whakamutunga ka whai hua e kore e taea te whakahoki, te āwangawanga rānei ki te kawenga.
- Te Whakakorenga o ngā Mahere: He whakatūpato pea te moemoeā kia kaua e whakarere wawe i ngā kaupapa nui, i ngā whakaaro rānei kei te whai mana tonu, engari mo tētahi take, kei te hiahia koe ki te whakakore.
- Ngā Pakanga Matatika Ā-roto: Ki ētahi, ka taea e te moemoeā mo te whakatahe te whakaata i ngā pakanga matatika, morare rānei e raru ana i a rātou, te rongo rānei o te hara e pā ana ki ngā kōwhiringa uaua.
He Tikanga Tō te Horopaki o te Moemoeā
- He Moemoeā e Whakatahe ana Koe i a Koe Anō: Ka tohu pea i tō whakataunga kaha ki te whakamutu i tētahi wāhanga o te ora, ki te whakakore i tētahi raru, kaupapa rānei kua riro hei pikaunga. E whakaata ana i tō hiahia ki te manaaki i tō ake mutunga, ahakoa he uaua ngā kōwhiringa.
- He Moemoeā e Tūwhio ana Koe i te Whakatahe: Ko te tū hei kaimātai mo te whakatahe ka tohu pea i te māramatanga ki te ngaronga, ki te mutunga rānei o tētahi mea nui i roto i tō taiao. Ka pā pea tēnei ki tētahi tangata tata, ki tētahi āhuatanga mahi, ki ngā huringa pāpori rānei kāore koe e whai mana ki te whakarereke, engari e whakapōhuri ana i a koe.
- He Moemoeā mo te Whakatahe a Tētahi Tangata Tata: Ka taea e tēnei moemoeā te whakaata i ngā āwangawanga mo te anamata o taua tangata, te mataku ki ōna whakataunga, ki ngā raruraru rānei e raru ana ia. Ka tohu pea hoki i te mutunga o tētahi hononga, o tētahi wāhanga rānei o tō koutou oranga tahi.
He Whakarāpopototanga me te Whakaaroaro
He tohu kaha te moemoeā mo te whakatahe mo te panonitanga me te mutunga. Kāore e paku whai tikanga tika ana, engari he maha ngā wā e tohu ana i te hiahia ki te tukatuka i ngā kare-ā-roto e pā ana ki te ngaronga, te whakarere, te whakatau rānei i ngā whakataunga uaua. Whakaarohia he aha i roto i tō ao e „tangohia” ana, e „whakakorehia” ana. He pikaunga rānei me whakawātea e koe, he moemoeā utu nui rānei kei te whakarere wawe koe? Kei ō kare-ā-roto whaiaro me tō horopaki ora te whakamaoritanga. He pōwhiri tēnei ki te tūhuratanga ā-roto me te whakaaroaro ko ēhea ngā taha o tō ao e hiahia ana ki ngā huringa nui, ki te whakamutu tūpono rānei.