Incazelo Yamaphupho: U-Abrahama. Iphupho ngo-Abrahama - lisho ukuthini?
Iphupho ngo-Abrahama, omunye wabalingiswa ababalulekile baseBhayibhelini nomkhulu wezinkolo ezintathu ezinkulu ezikholelwa kuNkulunkulu oyedwa, ligcwele izimpawu kakhulu. Umlingiswa wakhe uhlobene ngokuqinile nokholo, isithembiso, isivumelwano, ububaba, ifa kanye nohambo oluya kokungaziwa egameni lezindinganiso eziphakeme. Iphupho elinjalo alivamile ukubhekisela ezenzakalweni ezingokoqobo, kodwa kunalokho likhomba ezinqubweni zangaphakathi ezijulile, ukufuna okungokomoya, izisekelo esakha ngazo izimpilo zethu, kanye nezinselele ezihambisana nokwethembana nomthwalo wemfanelo.
Izici Ezinhle Zephupho Ngo-Abrahama
- Ubuqotho Nesivumelwano: Iphupho ngo-Abrahama livame ukufanekisela ukholo olujulile ezinkolelweni zakho, ezindinganisweni noma emandleni aphezulu. Lingasho ukuthi empilweni yakho sekuyisikhathi sokwenza “izivumelwano” ezibalulekile, zesikhathi eside – kungaba ezindabeni zobudlelwane bomuntu siqu, noma emkhakheni womsebenzi – ezizoba nemiphumela ehlala njalo neyinhle. Lolu uphawu lokwethembana nokukholwa ekunembeni kwendlela ekhethiwe.
- Ukuqala Nefa: Ukuvela kuka-Abrahama ephusheni kungase kubikezele ukuqala kwesigaba esisha, esibalulekile empilweni. Lokhu kungaba ukwakha umndeni, ukuqala ibhizinisi elisha, iphrojekthi, noma ngisho noku“sabalalisa” okungokomfanekiso umbono omusha noma uhlelo lwamanani azodluliselwa phambili. Leli phupho lingase lifanekisela inala nezithelo zomsebenzi wakho esikhathini esizayo.
- Ukubekezela Nokugcwaliseka Kwezithembiso: Umlingiswa ka-Abrahama ukhumbuza ngomvuzo wokubekezela nokuqina. Iphupho liphakamisa ukuthi naphezu kobunzima obuhlangabezana nabo, ukubekezela kwakho kuzoklonyeliswa. Izithembiso ezake zabonakala zingeke zenzeke noma zikude, zizoqala ukugcwaliseka, nemizamo yakho izoletha imiphumela oyifunayo.
- Ukunakekelwa Nokuhola: Ukuzwa ubukhona buka-Abrahama ephusheni kungasho ukuthi uthola ukwesekwa okungokomoya noma uthola umeluleki okuhola ekukhetheni okubalulekile empilweni. Lolu uphawu lokuthi awuwedwa ezifisweni zakho futhi ungathembela ekusizeni kwangaphandle noma ekuhlakanipheni kwangaphakathi.
Izici Ezimbi Zephupho Ngo-Abrahama
- Uvivinyo Lokholo Nokungabaza: Iphupho lingafanekisela isikhathi sezilingo ezinzima, lapho ukholo lwakho, izindinganiso, izinkolelo noma ubuqotho bakho zivivinywa kakhulu. Lokhu kungaholela emizweni yokudideka, ukungaqiniseki, noma ngabe uhamba endleleni efanele nokuthi izimiso zakho ziqine ngokwanele yini.
- Umthwalo Wemfanelo: Umlingiswa ka-Abrahama ungasho futhi ukuthi uzizwa ukhungathekile umthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo. Lokhu kuphathelene ikakhulukazi nezimo lapho kufanele uqale okusha, uhola abanye, ube isibonelo noma wenze izinqumo ezinezinto ezizoba nemiphumela emide. Lo mthwalo ungakhathaza ngokwengqondo.
- Umhlatshelo Nokuzidela: Iphupho lingabhekisela ekudingekeni kokwenza izinqumo ezinzima ezidinga umhlatshelo omkhulu kuwe – “umhlatshelo ka-Isaka” ongokomfanekiso. Lokhu kungasho ukuyeka into ebalulekile ukuze ufinyelele inhloso enkulu noma ugcine isithembiso, okungaba buhlungu futhi kudinga amandla angaphakathi.
- Ukulahleka noma Ukungabi Nezimpande: U-Abrahama wayengumhambi, futhi iphupho ngaye lingabonisa umuzwa wokuba sohambweni olungapheli, ngaphandle kwendawo eqhubekayo, ngaphandle “wasekhaya.” Lokhu kungaholela ekungaqiniseki, ekulangazeleleni ukuzinza, emizweni yokungabi yingxenye noma ukungabi nobungane.
Umongo Wephupho Ubalulekile
- Ukukhuluma No-Abrahama: Uma ephusheni ukhuluma no-Abrahama, lokhu kungasho ukuthi uthola iseluleko esihlakaniphile, isiqondiso noma ugqozi olungokomoya. Ngokwengqondo enhle, lokhu kuqinisekisa ukuthi uhamba endleleni efanele. Ngokwengqondo embi, kungafanekisela ukuthi izindinganiso zakho ziyabuzwa noma kufanele ubhekane nemibuzo enzima yokuziphatha edinga ukucabanga okujulile.
- Ukuba U-Abrahama (noma umuntu osesimweni sakhe): Iphupho lapho uwena uqobo u-Abrahama noma udlala indima efanayo, livame ukukulungiselela ukuba uthathe indima yomholi, ubaba/umama womndeni noma umsunguli wento ebalulekile. Lingafanekisela ukwamukela umthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo. Uma imizwa ephusheni ingemihle, lokhu kungaba uphawu lokukhungatheka umthwalo wemisebenzi, ingcindezi yokuba umuntu ophelele noma ukwesaba ukwehluleka emsebenzini obalulekile wokuphila.
- Ukuhamba No-Abrahama (noma ukulandela ezinyathelweni zakhe): Ukuzibona uhamba no-Abrahama noma ulandela ezinyathelweni zakhe kubonisa ukuqala kohambo olubalulekile, oluguqulayo lwempilo oluzoletha ukukhula nokugcwaliseka kwezithembiso. Lolu uphawu lokulungela ukushiya indawo yakho yokunethezeka nokwethemba ikusasa elingaziwa. Ngokubi, kungasho ukungaqiniseki ngekusasa, ukwesaba okungaziwa, umuzwa wokuba “umhambi” ngaphandle kwendawo eqhubekayo, ofuna injongo noma inhloso.
Isifingqo Nokucabanga
Iphupho ngo-Abrahama liyiphupho elijulile elingokomfanekiso, elithinta izici eziyisisekelo zokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu: ukholo, ukwethembana, umthwalo wemfanelo, ifa kanye nohambo oluya kokungaziwa. Liyakhuthaza ukuba ucabange ngezinkolelo zakho nezindinganiso zakho – hhayi ezihlobene nenkolo kuphela, kodwa ngalokho okukholwa kakhulu kukho nokuhola izinqumo zakho. Lokhu kungaba uphawu lokwethemba inqubo yokuphila, ngisho noma indlela ibonakala inzima futhi idinga ukuzidela. Cabanga ngendima oyidlalayo empilweni yakho nasezimpilweni zabanye, nangokuthi usukulungele yini ukulandela “izwi” elikuhola ebuhleni bakho, wakhe izisekelo eziqinile wena nezizukulwane ezizayo.